Tips for dating a successful man
And while this helps them in business negotiations, it doesn’t help them nearly as much in their love lives. While movie dates are popular, they’re not great for first dates as you’ll both be staring at a screen all night. Sure, all people crave a highly functioning and fulfilling relationship.But in my career as a relationship coach I have consistently seen driven, high-achieving men to be the most love starved. The more time and energy that driven men put into their careers and self-optimization (fitness, education, nutrition, spiritual practice, etc.) the more they tend to delay being in intimate relationships.
However, they are each just looking at a piece of the overall exchange that is dating and relating.
When looking for love, should you focus on "being what others want" and making yourself appealing?
Or, should you focus on "figuring out what you want" and going after the love life you desire? Now, here's where I further cement my place as "The Attraction Doctor" and settle this debate.
Jim Talbott, director of consumer insights at Match.com, also suggests: “Keep your photos fresh, and swap out your primary photo frequently.
You look like a new user and people who might have missed you before are more likely to give you a second look.” A final thought from Honey: “Don't be tempted to airbrush your picture or present yourself looking too much better than you do in real life, and give group photos a miss to avoid confusion.” It might feel a little awkward, but dating expert Peter Spalton says it’s a great idea to ask a friend to cast a fresh eye over what you’ve written – and not just to check your spelling.